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So you have been given the job of best man. One of the most significant responsibilities of the title is organizing the bachelor party.  You were asked to be the best man because the bachelor has a close connection to you. It should be easy to assume that you likely know the bachelor better than anyone else. You should have a better understanding of what the groom to be would like for a bachelor party . But that doesn't mean you should exclude him from planning. The bachelor is critical for planning the bachelor party.  Talk to the bachelor.  When you speak with the bachelor, ask him who he would like at the party, how they know him, who knows each other and who has kids. Getting an idea of how many people will be there can give you an idea of options as well as cost. If most have kids, it is likely an out of town, or overnight trip won't work. In that case, an ingrown or relatively local party will be best. If most are single and have good incomes, then th